In Class Learning's Connected to my Personal Life
In class, we often debated nuanced questions with no true answer, like “Does stealing from a thief make you a better person, or are you both bad?” and “Is lying ever warranted?” Those debates never ended in a clear yes or no. We’d talk it through, and the answer always landed somewhere around “it depends on the situation.” That way of thinking has shown up in my own life through religion. I was baptized Catholic and did all the communion and confirmation steps, but in college I found myself in a more Christian crowd, so I now sit somewhere in between. My faith is a big part of how I guide myself and my morals, but I don’t practice it blindly. My boyfriend has been trying to grow stronger in his faith, and we recently had a conflict over it. He was reading the Bible in a very black-and-white way. At first it was little things, but eventually I couldn’t bite my tongue anymore. I told him that nothing is as black and white as it seems. The Bible says disobeying your parents is a sin, but ...