Something I Learned About My Relationship

Last weekend, I went to a concert with my boyfriend and his childhood best friends, who were in town visiting. I’d never met them, and I really wanted to, since they’re a big part of who he is. I knew going in that it wouldn’t be my kind of night. I didn’t know the artist, and I’d be the only girl with five guys, only one of whom I actually knew. But my boyfriend asked me to come, and I knew he’d do the same for me in a heartbeat. That’s what a relationship is, I think: showing up for each other, even when it’s a little out of your comfort zone.

The show ran from 12 AM to 2:30 AM, which is right in the middle of my sleep schedule, because I’m the girl who’s in bed early. It was EDM house music, so no lyrics and no story, just bass. I grew up in Texas on old country, where every song actually tells you something, so this was a whole different world. And somehow I still had a great time. Most of the night, I wasn’t even watching the stage. I was watching my boyfriend, laughing with his oldest friends and completely in his element, and that was my favorite part. The next morning, it stuck with me that showing up for the people you love matters more than whether the night is your taste, because sometimes the best moments happen when you step outside your comfort zone for someone else.

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